1. I am not stupid, I can add and subtract maybe even better than you.
2. We don’t discuss about money, you talk and I pretend to listen..
3. I would like you to discuss purchase of big ticket items with me BEFORE you buy them.
4. Your lack of honesty about money drives me crazy !
5. I am on your side.. I am not stealing from you or trying to enrich myself or my parents at your expense. Have faith in me.
6. I want our family to be financially secure and our kids to have better opportunities than we did, you don’t always seem to get that.
7. I will not think any less of you if you are honest about how much you earn or your financial status.
8. You are so defensive about money, so I tell you what you want to hear just to keep the peace.
9. I may not make the money but I still want to know how the finances are being managed.
10. I need to know that our family is a priority in your life. I am happy to help out extended family & friends when I know that we come first.
11. It feels like you use money to assert your power over me, I may as well be one of the kids when it comes to financial decisions.
12.You resent that I make more money than you. I don’t treat you like you’re inferior, you do that by yourself.
13. Love + Work + Vision= My Respect
14. You were more loving & kind before we had money..
15. Why do we not have the money for rent, food, school fees and other bills but you still have money to go out ?
16. I wish, like you, I can make financial mistakes and it’s considered a learning point not a train smash!
No comments:
Post a Comment